Tuesday, September 24, 2013

A spiritual explanation on "Lord Shiva" as shown on a private channel

A few days back, dear friend Mr.Rajarshi Nandy on Facebook asked a curious question via the usual status update.

To tell in brief about Rajarshi ji, he is one person who gives some detailed yet perfect explanations - driven by sheer logic on spiritual subjects / terms / definitions / incidents & what not! But, strictly adheres to topics on spirituality only - on Facebook & Twitter. It always interests me to learn more about the reasoning behind what we call as mythology & shun to probe further. This dear friend helps me precisely doing that. Now, read the post, you would know it.

Now, back to the post. The status update read: 
"Just one question to the makers of the serial Devo Ki Dev Mahadev. From which comic book did you take this latest episode from, about Shiva's Aghor-rupa?"

So, as curious as it might seem, the answer is as puzzled. I gave up the moment I read the last word of the status update. Hence, asked him to explain (read answer) himself. And, he gave this wonderful explanation.

In my opinion, I see the following flaws in that episode.

1. Shiva is said to have five faces at five directions. Of these, Aghora is one of the faces, which looks at the southern direction. South is the direction of Yama and death. Shiva's Aghora rupa is not an unnatural state to Him.

2. This episode seems to suggest that because Kali entered into great tamas, Shiva had to, a bit unhappily, take on his Aghora rupa. That is doubtful as an interpretation, not to mention disparaging in a subtle way to the theological and philosophical aspects of Kali. 

3. As per the most prevalent lore, the form of Shiva who smears himself with ash from funeral pyres and conducts rituals in a cremation ground is called Bhairava. That form has his own mythology and story - of how Bhairava was created from Shiva and then he cut off Brahma's fifth head and made a begging bowl out of it. ETC. He is also known as Smashan Shiva.

4. Aghora is a extreme culmination of Vamachari Tantra. Behind the apparent madness and chaos, there is a strong philosophy. Of course, many have abused this path, but that does not really mean that it cannot be used by a competent seeker for Self-realization. It's philosophy is to take headon everything that in normal condition perverts, pollutes, disintegrates or pulls a normal consciousness into greater materialism, and then by force of Will and Grace of the Supreme transform them completely into something Divine. Going into the heart of darkness until you reach the Light. This path has no dogma, no specific scripture, no dos and don'ts. Only the most stable seekers, ones with maximum self-control and will-power can succeed in this path. Dangers are plenty. One by one every one of the great pasha - chains - that bind the consciousness have to be faced and then overcome.,Doubt, Fear, Lust, Desire, Hatred, Attachment ETC.. 

5. Shiva is anyway the destroyer. If he is not Smashanvashi, then which other Devata will be? Why this squeamishness about depicting his Aghora form?

6. It showed that the Rishis and Brahma were disturbed about the long term consequence of Aghora. I wonder why. Rishi Durvasa was a great worshiper of Bhairava. Anyone who worships Bhairava form of Shiva, will eventually, to culminate the worship into its Highest Essence, will have to engage in a serious manner with cremation grounds and charnel grounds. Rishi Vasistha was a great worshiper of Mahachchinna Tara, which is almost Aghora.

7. Their depiction of some Aghoris with stuffed black toys dancing was almost comical. That toy they had in their hands is a small object sold around Kala Bhairava temple in Kashi, and used by people to ward off the 'evil-eye'. Its efficacy is questionable, its scriptural backing is non-existent.

8. They showed that the Aghoris were exulting Kali to remain 'krodhit'. Kali is the force of destruction. Smashan Kali more so. It is not out of anger that the destruction happens, but because it is Her Dharma to do so. 

9. Finally, some of the best Aghoris - with no frills, no drama, to theatrics - only a clear purpose and a disciplined dedication to their sadhana can be found in the Kinnaram Ashram in Kashi. They have systematized the sadhana is an organized manner. If one is interested, go meet them and ask them. There maybe individuals too who have perfected Aghora sadhanas, but tracing them is more difficult. Whatever came out in that serial was a romanticized, comical version of the scriptwriter's fantasy about what Aghora must be, rather than what it really is.

Sunday, September 01, 2013

Unnale Unnale... ("Because of you because of you...")

Was just browsing some movies on Youtube and came across this Tamil movie. Watched this movie for only for second time. First time, some 4 years back. A great movie.

This movie tells a tale of a loving guy unable to adjust to the expectations of his lady love, yet, loves her wholeheartedly. the movie is so touching that one point, I could sense how the guy felt. Some amazing acting & screenplay there.

Not often, love evolves the misunderstanding phase. When it does, it always comes out stronger & bolder - moreover, passionate.

The lady in the movie is so strict that is just opposite of the character of a guy. Instead of speaking and sorting things out, the lady wants to move out of the relationship - time & again. Its not always the guy did right thing always either. But, certainly, the guy was atleast open to understand what the lady wants. Never wanted to leave the relationship.

So, basically, when talking does its bit, and with mutual adjustments, a love can always cherish. That's the most valuable takeaway from the movie.

The movie also reiterates that love can't survive when one's core qualities are to be sacrificed. It just can't be like, you love a person for certain qualities & later find faults & want to move out of relationship. Yes, that's exactly what is said in the movie.

One of the scenes goes like this during a debate (Check the video) -
The lady's friend asks a question to our man in the movie: "What do men look for in a Woman?"
Our man replies: "Care & affection"
And, our man continues by asking: "What do women expect in men?"
The lady's friend replies: "Security & love"

At the end, the debate concludes, men & women are equal not because of their advantage(s) but, because of their disadvantage(s). THAT - is exactly what I feel. Couldn't agree more on that.

Finally, the guy is shown some "care & affection" instead of character changing requirements of the Lady. The girl, who patronizes our guy is none other than the lady's friend.

That said, to be fair, even if you interchange the guy & lady's characters, my stand would be just that.

Overall, a well made movie. Kudos to the team. A MUST watch movie to all those who want to fall in love to understand the gist of what it takes for a matured relationship. Also, recommend this to all those who just broke up & still thinking about your ex. Go, get back to your loved one. No one is dying and no problem is unresolvable.

For those interested, full movie can be watched here:


Saturday, August 31, 2013

People & their reactions depends on situations

There are times when you say, "I can do it." - when you know what you are capable of.

There are times when you say, "I can manage it." - when you know, what, people whom you depend on, are capable of.

There are times when you say, "I can't do it." - when you know both the above points are not in your favour.

One such instance happened in my life in late-July & continued till early August. It was such a hell of a situation that I can't speak openly about. But, I can only narrate the repercussions.

Problem in a nut shell: I was being called by a person. And, was not in a position to take up the call & speak.

Reason: *censored* for now. Trust me, it is serious, beyond your imaginations. Else, I usually SMS & call back.

Repercussions: Termination of a relationship & hurt a person on the other end.

All I wish to say is, certain things are beyond your imagination on what the other person is going through. Know them well. Look back. Has the person ever reacted so strongly to a humble phone call? Answer is a HUGE Nope. There could be several instances, even - where the person in anger does wrong doings and apologizes. I had even forgiven your wrong doings due to which I had lost 4 years of hard work & a couple of good friends also. Yet, you were are not generous enough to accept this one situation? And, started to spread venom amongst our common friends.

Also the fact is that, how can such a good friend all of a sudden hate you for this one instance? Weird, ain't it? Well, there lies a tale. They may not have probably treated you as you treated them. Lesson of life this!

That is sad! Yet, true.

Am sure, the person is definitely going to read this post. To that person, I wish to say something I have been telling you all along: "Never take rash decisions. It just won't suit you. Also, stop acting on other's directions. Think on your own. You brain won't fetch you more value, if its unused, when its up for sale."

Good luck to your life. Now, its end of chapter. I gently, warn you to stay away.